Do you often forget to pray, or don't know where to start or how to
go about it when you do remember? It takes a while for prayer to become
a habit, but it's a habit that's worth cultivating because it can solve
so many problems--sometimes before they happen. If your prayer times
need a jump-start, these tips should help.
1. Keep a prayer list.
Whenever you become aware that someone or some situation needs prayer,
write it down. Carry your list with you, put it in your notebook or
agenda, or post it somewhere you'll be sure to see it at a good time.
Then, as each prayer is answered, thank the Lord and mark that item off
your list.
2. Establish regular prayer times.
Regularity is a key to forming any good habit. Short times of prayer
throughout the day may work better than one longer stretch, because
shorter times are usually more doable. Plus the more often you pray,
the easier it will be to form the important habit of praying about
every decision and committing every activity to the Lord. Find what
works for you and stick with it.
3. Have prayer promises handy.
God has made hundreds of promises to us in His Word, and He likes for
us to hold Him to those promises. "Ask and it will be given you"
(Matthew 7:7), for example. As you read and study the Bible, mark
promises that stand out to you, or compile them into a list.
4. Find a place conducive to prayer.
When possible, find a quiet, distraction-free spot. God looks at the
position of your heart, not the position of your body, so get
comfortable enough to focus--but not so comfortable you fall asleep.
5. Begin your prayer by praising and thanking God for His goodness.
"Let us come before His presence with thanksgiving" (Psalm 95:2).
6. Tailor your prayer to the situation.
Some situations call for longer, more fervent, or more frequent prayer
than others. It's always important to be specific and definite.
7. Join forces.
Pray with others when possible, or ask others to pray separately for
the need at hand. It can be humbling to pray with others if you're not
accustomed to doing so, but you'll soon find that it's as inspiring and
faith-building as it is effective.